Today we would like to discuss the issue of professional photos. If you were on different dating sites and checked different profiles of the ladies then you had this question not once. Often men expect to see one lady judging by her professional photos but in reality, the lady is different.
Why do women take professional photos and publish them on dating sites? First of all, the first thing the man pays attention to is how the lady looks. We all know that physical attraction is very important for a man. The man needs to notice the lady between others. Usually, there is a huge variety of ladies on dating sites and of course, with no professional photos, it's difficult for a woman to attract a man's attention. The first impression is important and in online search, the first impression is from the first photo. If the woman is going to have a simple daily photo with no makeup then the man won't even notice her, even if she is really a nice person and has a kind heart with a deep individual world.
Luckily, the understanding of beauty is individual, otherwise, some women have hundreds of men and others have no chance to meet someone.
Of course, doing professional photos is one thing and to have Photoshop where the lady looks like another person are different thing. Why do women do that? The reason is the same - to attract a man. But what do they get at the end? Probably nothing because the man will be disappointed at the end when he sees the real her.
How do we deal with this issue in our service? We support if the lady wants to publish professional photos but we insist that she needs to add daily photos also. It's nice that the man can see how beautiful the lady is in a cocktail dress with a hairstyle and makeup but it's important for him to know how she is going to look daily when they are at home. Also, the best way to show how the woman really looks is a video. We recommend that to women all the time.
One more thing we would like to advise to men. When you see a woman with beautiful professional photos with professional makeup and hairstyle then don't expect to see the same in daily photos or through Skype unless she is a makeup artist. We will open you a small secret: professional makeup and hairstyles take more than 2 hours to do each) Usually, one master does the hair, and the other does the makeup.
To skip such situations we always recommend men ask ladies for daily photos and notice if the lady is using filters or Photoshop. Unfortunately, there are women who can't accept themselves the way they really look and use filters all the time, we met such women also.
So let's draw the conclusion: if you want to meet your expectations, remember that during the online meeting, the woman can't look the same luxurious as in professional photos; pay attention to not professional photos and listen to our recommendations. At the end of the day, you are going to live with a human, not a photo.
With best regards,
'Wife Ukraine' team
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