Today we would like to discuss what is happening with partners after they leave the site and start communicating directly. Well, there are different men and women and all of them have different thoughts and reasons when and why it’s the time to share contacts and communicate directly.
In most situations, the initiative to exchange personal contacts is from a man. Of course, men have reasons for that. Usually, the reasons are next:
- they pay for services that are not cheap;
- they want to make sure the lady is interested;
- they want to talk more often and get answers from ladies immediately.
Yes, getting ladies' contacts is not cheap and the man thinks once he does it, it already shows that he is serious in his intentions and that he wants to know the lady better.
We looked at this situation from the side of the man and now let’s see it from the side of the woman. Since we are in contact with both sides, we know both visions and want to share them with you. Hopefully, our information and recommendations will help you to understand more why women act that way in certain situations.
Let’s look at the situation when the man requested for lady’s personal contact without talking to her. What are the reasons that the lady refuses:
- the lady doesn’t know the man and is not sure if she is going to like him;
- the man is not that stable financially and doesn’t want or can’t spend money on the site to communicate with her;
- the man doesn’t appreciate what she thinks and doesn’t count her opinion because he sent a request without even asking her.
Men and women are different and we all know that the point is that in many situations women may see something that may not even exist in a man’s actions, especially if she doesn’t know the man or knows him very little.
Now let’s get back to the main questions that we wanted to talk about in this article. Why do women are less active after exchanging letters on the site? Actually, everything is simple. The site needs dynamics for many reasons, to grow, to develop, and to get income. So there are rules for both members and not always they are the same. The man pays for services and letters, the woman doesn’t but woman when she joins the site she signs the agreement, she agrees that she is going to answer the man’s letters within 3 days. If the lady doesn’t answer, she will get notifications, again and again. If the lady is not interested in a man or there is no need to answer, she needs to tell the manager about this. So after members exchange personal contacts, nobody is reminding and sending notifications that she needs to answer the man that’s why ladies may forget and take more time to answer.
Also, most of the ladies are not that good in English. On the site, all letters are translated that’s why it’s easy for ladies because they write letters and receive letters from men in their native languages. The correspondence is translated by professional translators, not electronic ones. When members communicate directly, ladies are not that good at translating and it may bring complicates that will reduce the interest from both sides.
So our recommendations are next:
- don’t rush to request personal contacts;
- discuss this with a lady before doing that and ask what her thoughts are about this;
- if the lady is not sure, don’t press her and give her time;
- it’s better to exchange contacts if you plan to meet soon because after the meeting the communication is totally on a different level.
But the main point is that no matter if you communicate on the site or you communicate directly, the best way to know if you are a match or not is to meet because one meeting is much better than hundreds of letters.
With best regards,
‘Wife Ukraine’ team
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